Soul takeaways for July:

* Look at the relationships in your life

* Know the love and gift in release

* Open to new connections 

* Embrace change and growth

July is a month for reaching out and growth. We are being asked to look deeply into the relationships in our lives and lovingly let go of any that no longer serve our highest good and growth.

This isn’t about being ruthless or cruel, it is about freeing yourself so that you can be the best version of yourself in this world. Hear me out…

You know how sometimes you find yourself with those friends that make you gossip more than usual? Or who seem to be in an unending space of negativity? These can be symptoms that your relationship isn’t a particularly healthy one, and that you might both benefit from stepping aside and finding a new path to growth.

This might seem daunting, or an unfair thing to do. But the truth is that by doing this you’re giving both yourself and the other person involved permission to move forward and to grow.

Sometimes those beautiful connections that were once so fulfilling have run their race.

And they’re not beautiful anymore.

Chances are that just by reading this you already have someone, or a few ‘someone’s’ in mind.

The key to easing away from a relationship that isn’t healthy for you is to remember that it always benefits both parties. By releasing yourself you are creating space in your heart to be more loving and to be able to share that love with those who are ready and willing to receive it. You are also freeing that other person to find people in their life that are more suited to what they need.

It’s the same with romantic relationships.

We have this funny habit of assuming that we know what is best for everyone else.

That we know what direction their life path should take and how they are supposed to get there.

But we don’t.

More often than not we’re not even close because we forget that ‘negative’ emotions and growing pains can be important to an individual’s growth.

So whilst something might seem negative on the outside it may in fact be the most brilliant seed for growth and consequent joy.

So how do we move aside from these less than healthy relationships?

Start by releasing them energetically.

If you have someone in mind that you feel you could benefit from releasing in your life you might like to try this healing process now.

Close your eyes and imagine this person standing in front of you.

Once you can clearly visualise them there imagine yourself saying to them (or actually say out loud if you like) the following:

“Beloved (name), thank you for joining me here in this energetic space that we share. It has come to a point in my soul journey where I feel like I need to release us from this energetic relationship, so that we may both move forward for our growth and service to the divine.”

Now imagine any energetic cords that might be joining the two of you together. These might be few and large, or thin and many. Whatever you perceive to be there is correct.

Say the following,

“Archangel Michael, I call upon you at this time to help me release from this relationship with (name). Please gently and thoroughly remove all cords and connections between us that no longer serve our highest good and divine purpose. Let it be so, now.”

Know that Archangel Michael will never disconnect the love or compassion that you share for one another. He will respectfully release anything that is no longer required or not helpful for your soul’s growth.

Imagine Archangel Michael appearing with his sword of flaming blue light. Watch as he gently removes these cords that you have perceived between the two of you. This may take a little time. Be patient as you ensure he has released every last cord. Watch as these cords are returned to the person there with you.

Say the following,

“Beloved (name), thank you for everything you have shared with me in this lifetime. Thank you for our journey together and for the wisdom you have shared with me. I forgive you and myself for any negativity created between us and I release us both fully to fulfill our life purpose here on earth. May you always be loved and held safely in the arms of the divine. It is time now for you to leave. With love and gratitude, good bye.” 

Watch as this person turns and walks towards a beautiful soft pink light. Watch them until they become enveloped by the pink light and you can no longer see them. This is the loving embrace of the divine. They will be safe and loved here.

Call upon Archangel Raphael to complete the healing within you.

“Archangel Raphael, I call you now with your healing green light. Please fill and heal the place where these cords once were and allow me to be whole again. Let it be so, now.”

Watch as Archangel Raphael’s hands, aglow with his deep green healing light, begin to move over your body gently healing and sealing over the holes from where these cords once were. This may take a little time. Be patient to ensure that all these holes in your body are healed.

Once this is complete say the following,

“Archangel Michael and Archangel Raphael, thank you for being present and assisting me in this time of release and healing. I ask you to walk beside me for as long as I continue to need it.”

The energetic releasing ceremony is now complete. 

You might find over the next few weeks like it feels that nothing much has changed. It may be subtle. You may find that suddenly that person stops calling, or if they are a work colleague that they no longer seem to bother you or unexpectedly move into a new job. If it’s a family member you might find that they seek their emotional approval elsewhere.

This is a gentle and loving process that allows you to honour who you are and what you deserve in your life. You can do it for as many people as you feel is necessary.

You might also like to set the intention that those who are in line with your soul growth enter your life now. Those who are trustworthy and willing to act with love.

For in every release we make way for something new and more nourishing to arrive.

We give ourselves permission to be who we want to be and attract into our life people who live their life in the same way.

May this month be a beautiful one of freedom and growth

With love,

xx

 
(Card deck: Sacred Rebels Oracle by Alana Fairchild) 

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